"I", "Me", "My" - These words are connected to the existence.
"I" am a XYZ person.
Well, this is "Me".
"My" name / hobby / profession is so and so.
These words, when used in a sentence, more or less, initiate the process of proving the existence.
Well, to whom? To Self or to others?
Also, it is necessary to ensure that the image that is carried alongwith "I", "Me", "My" should never tamper; rather ever enhance.
What is gained out of it?
How others think about "Me" makes me feel happy or sad? Is it?
"I" feel good to receive the certificate of what "I" have accomplished, from others.
"I" get a new car for "My" happiness; the feeling of possessing it and driving it does make "Me" feel happy but does it look incomplete unless "others" praise it?
If "I" am happy about doing something and declaring it to the world makes "Me" feel happier, it still looks ok, but what if "I" got to do something irrespective of "Me" not liking to do? It might make the "other" party happy but will "I" be happy? Even if "I" say, "I" feel happy to realize that the "other" party liked it, am "I" actually happy?
The other side of it is, "I" love doing ABC but got to restrict "My"self as it might not look "good" to "others" and they might print an adverse certificate in "My" name, which "I" might not like as it's not "Me" who can face a display of adversity in the image that is based on the existence related to "I", "Me", "My".
While "I" write this, it is constantly on "My" mind that the message has to be conveyed in such a manner that "no-one" thinks anything "otherwise" about "Me".
"I" am a XYZ person.
Well, this is "Me".
"My" name / hobby / profession is so and so.
These words, when used in a sentence, more or less, initiate the process of proving the existence.
Well, to whom? To Self or to others?
Also, it is necessary to ensure that the image that is carried alongwith "I", "Me", "My" should never tamper; rather ever enhance.
What is gained out of it?
How others think about "Me" makes me feel happy or sad? Is it?
"I" feel good to receive the certificate of what "I" have accomplished, from others.
"I" get a new car for "My" happiness; the feeling of possessing it and driving it does make "Me" feel happy but does it look incomplete unless "others" praise it?
If "I" am happy about doing something and declaring it to the world makes "Me" feel happier, it still looks ok, but what if "I" got to do something irrespective of "Me" not liking to do? It might make the "other" party happy but will "I" be happy? Even if "I" say, "I" feel happy to realize that the "other" party liked it, am "I" actually happy?
The other side of it is, "I" love doing ABC but got to restrict "My"self as it might not look "good" to "others" and they might print an adverse certificate in "My" name, which "I" might not like as it's not "Me" who can face a display of adversity in the image that is based on the existence related to "I", "Me", "My".
While "I" write this, it is constantly on "My" mind that the message has to be conveyed in such a manner that "no-one" thinks anything "otherwise" about "Me".
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