7. Expectations.

This is something that (some/many) people wanna get rid off when (almost) nothing works.
Gosh, I should not have any expectations from anyone in Life. How could I expect such things from him/her when I was damn sure that I am gonna get disappointed.

This is also something which everyone wants to have it as an Integral part of life, though.
Many of us are like – Expectations – Desire - Dream – Vision – Goal – Target.

Sounds cool. I usually come across people who say, If there are no expectations there is no life.
If you won’t expect something from your loved ones, what is the point in calling them as your loved ones?

On the contrary, there are some who say Never Expect anything from any one. The biggest loophole here is such people don’t expect anything from anyone but on the other hand there is a big inner expectation (hidden) and that is no one should expect anything from me as well.

When I say about some such people and other such people, both the extremes (here) are ME, MYSELF. It’s kinda situational ME. In some situations I am the heads and in some, tails.

Are you (as a reader) waiting for the answer? Hey, but there should be a question at the first place.
Ok. Got it. The question coming out here is “Do I need to expect anything or no?”

Now, If I say NO. This will sound quite spiritual and if I say YES, some people (now here, literally readers) will say – Big deal man. That’s what I am doing. Why should I read it further?

Well, that’s true but I haven’t given any answer yet. Now, the answer which I am going to give is quite simple but may not make sense to some (may be most). I will say here, Do as you feel but make sure of one thing that you don’t have any regrets (forever in your life). The answer lies within. If I am expecting something, I should know that I am gonna get thru and that’s it !